Why is defensiveness so damaging to our relationships? As one of my personal mental health heroes, Dr. Harriet Lerner, would say: “Defensiveness is the arch-enemy of listening.” Why? Because you can’t be defensive and listen simultaneously. It’s impossible. There are all different levels of being
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